Love Fears Nothing (video)

Posted on May 8, 2009. Filed under: Love | Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

Love fears nothing. Really? Then why do I feel that anxious feeling in my solar plexus when I think of losing someone I love? Why does my heart palpitate when I think of never seeing someone I care about again? Why do I find myself worrying about this child or that family member? Why do I get upset when people I care about do things that I think are bad for them or will hurt them? Is that fear? Don’t I do it because I love them?

I Love You When…..

Why do I get upset when my sister or friend or man wants me to be other than I am? Isn’t it because I fear they will no longer love me and yet in being true to myself I can’t be who they want me to be? Do you owe it to yourself to be true to yourself or do you owe it to others to be who they think you should be in order to have them love you? So then are they loving you or are they loving the confirmation that they are right about everything they think because you trade the truth of who you are for their love and approval? Pretty controlling, isn’t it? I am not controlling, am I? Am I?

How can we reconcile the truth of the statement “Love Fears Nothing” with the upstream feelings that perceived loss creates in and around us? How can we find our way to the truth of knowing when we are feeling love and when we are feeling fear? How do we get it permanently so that it becomes a part of us that love and fear are NOT the same thing? When we are afraid, we are not feeling love. We are feeling fear. They are not one and the same. Worry and love are not one and the same. Control and love are not one and the same. Manipulation and love are not one and the same.

Jumping Through Hoops For Who….

How many parts of yourself are you juggling to protect yourself and your relationships from the fear of loss? Can you please yourself and please your girlfriend or boyfriend, your sisters and brothers, your co workers, your spouse, your boss, your minister, your best friend, your children, your parents? If you were not afraid of losing their stamp of approval and all the benefits that go with that approval; if you could just be who you are without being afraid of being abandoned; who might you be then? How would that feel? How would that feel?

Listen to Esther on this Abraham-Hicks series of two videos.
Part 1

Part 2

I hope this helps you to reconcile your right to simply be who you are without losing love and to be yourself without fear of loss. Feel that fear and know that it cannot hurt you. A great man once said “We have nothing to fear but fear itself.” More and more I am owning the truth of that statement as I break new ground within myself of facing my inner fears and disarming them with acceptance of both my strength and my vulnerability. We all want to be loved but only because we don’t realize that we already are totally and completely loved in every possible way and it isn’t possible for anyone to take that away. The threats of loss of love are empty, they are harmless. Love can never be taken away. Fear is not love and love fears nothing.

A lovely sister and friend, Angela Bear, whose work I really admire for it’s truth that resonates with me has a name she uses online “Loved by Creator”. That says it all. Another dear friend,Steve Pohlit, has a fan page on Facebook called Manifest Mastermind and his tag is “Love Fears Nothing”. Another deeply passionate friend, Georgina Beament, has a site “A world of Love and Light“, that fills me with the most incredible feelings of love and opens my heart. These statements got me thinking about the power of the words. I don’t know about you but I really like that downstream feeling!

Thank you for showing up.
I love you.

Advertisements
Read Full Post | Make a Comment ( None so far )

Liked it here?
Why not try sites on the blogroll...